The number of adult women who have attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) will probably surprise you. Women who make it to motherhood with undiagnosed ADHD have been unknowingly suffering from it their entire lives and are just trying to manage their symptoms on their own the best they can. Moms with this condition often have a difficult time organizing their lives and the lives of their children. They can feel like they have no control over anything and can't totally figure out how to get it together.